Women's History Month - Honoring Lysa Terkeurst
Hi ladies it's me again and happy Lord's day! I hope and pray that each of you ladies and your families are doing well. I'm happy to present another blog continuing to honor "Women's History Month" and the lady today I'm talking about is "Honoring Lysa Terkeurst". The name should sound familiar especially for those of you who love reading nonfiction books. You maybe wondering what's her background. Well she was born in 1969 in Tallahassee, Florida and sadly encountered sexual abuse at a young age. To make matters more challenging, her parents divorced when she was in Middle school but her mom later remarried Lysa's stepdad. Lysa struggled with her self-worth after her parents divorce and it impacted the way she viewed God. (Side note that's not unusual for people to feel that way after the tragedy of divorce. ) Lysa eventually graduated from high school in 1987 and when she went to college, ("Furman University") her sixteen month old little sister Hayley died and went to heaven! I can only imagine the grief that she, her mom, stepdad, and other siblings must have went through when that happened. Also while in college she had an abortion but also when she got saved and has walked with the Lord since then. She graduated from "Furman University" in 1991 and eventually relocated to Charlotte, North Carolina and has resigned there for many years. Eventually Lysa met Art Terkeurst through mutual friends fell in love and got married in 1993 when she was 24 years old. She and her first husband Art went on to have three biological daughters and started "Proverbs 31 Ministries" when her daughters were little while Art worked a regular job. Eleven years to their marriage in 2004, she and Art adopted two boys ages fourteen and twelve from Africa which made them from being a family of five to a family of seven! Wow what a big family! Lysa had a heart to adopt though she wasn't sure about it but before she adopted her sons God gave her various confirmations for she and her first husband Art to adopt. Even her young daughters begged her and Art to adopt which made it easier for them! Lysa learned how to balance her walk with the Lord, her marriage, her kids, and her ministry "Proverbs 31 Ministries" when God commissioned her to do something else which was to become a Christian author! Lysa has published many books such as "Living On Purpose", "Made To Crave", "When Women Say Yes To God", "Uninvited", "It's Not Supposed To Be This Way", "Forgiving What You Can't Forget", "Boundaries And Goodbyes", and "I Trust You But I Don't". I'm sure she wrote more books than that and the books I didn't mention y'all can Google on the internet to look them up! She's a New York bestselling author which helped make "Proverbs 31 Ministries" to be in the "spotlight" and has spoken on many women's events at various churches across the country and all over the world! "Proverbs 31 Ministries" is a non-denominational online women's ministry that shares devotionals, podcasts, Bible studies, that relates to issues that women face today as well as offer Lysa's books and other women on her staff's books too. (Some of those women are Tracie Miles Crystal Evans Hurst, Lisa Allen just to name a few!) Despite her success in her books and "Proverbs 31 Ministries", Lysa had a very challenging life behind the scenes. As her kids were becoming teenagers and young adults, she noticed a change in her first marriage where things drastically went wrong. During the last seven years of Lysa's first marriage, (years 2015 and 2022) she noticed changes in Art's behavior and she eventually found out he had an affair and had substance addiction problems! Lysa didn't know what to do but she prayed to the Lord for help and went to Christian counseling with her first husband seeking to repair their broken marriage. By this point, her kids were graduating from high school and college as well as getting married and having families while she was dealing with the challenges of her first marriage. She and Art were separated twice but they reconciled in 2018 renewing their 25 year marriage vows. But sadly things took a drastic turn for the worst when Art had a second affair in 2021 a year into COVID and Lysa prayed again about what to do. She decided to separate again, go back to Christian counseling, and filed for divorce. Her divorce wasn't final until 2022 when she was 53 years old after 29 years of marriage and with all five of her kids grown and out of the house! Lysa stated that the reason of her divorce was because of adultery and addiction from her former husband Art and decided to take a break from the romantic world. She thought when she got divorced that she'd never find love again but God in His sense of humor had other plans. In 2023, a year after her divorce she online dated and met a Christian man named Chaz Adams that's two years younger than her! What's his story? He was born in 1971 and raised in Pondera Vera, Florida was married to his first wife, had two kids a son and daughter, and works for "Health Insurance". But despite his good job he had a very broken life and sadly struggled with alcoholism for many years as well as his late brother. That impacted his first marriage and his life started going downhill but in 2014 something changed. He decided to go to a "AA meeting" to get help with his alcohol addiction and met a pastor who prayed over him. He was 43 years old by then and that was the same year he got saved! God and rehab helped him overcome his alcohol addiction which helped heal his relationship with his teenagers. Even though his relationship with his teens improved things fell apart in his first marriage. His first wife committed adultery, they separated, and eventually divorced. But Chaz kept pressing on in his walk with the Lord and was single for seven years before he started dating again. His son and daughter eventually graduated from high school and college and Chaz prayed for a godly relationship. In 2023 when Lysa was 54 and Chaz was 52 years old they met through online dating and later for several months dated in person. Lysa was shocked she "fell head over heels" in love with Chaz and eventually she and Chaz got engaged in late 2023. When Lysa was 55 and Chaz was 53 years old, they got remarried in 2024 and their adult children, and young grandkids gathered together to celebrate their wedding ceremony in France! Chaz had two young adult kids from his first marriage and Lysa had five adult children from her first marriage while also gaining many more grandkids causing them to have a blended family! God turned what the devil meant for evil in Lysa's life and turned it around for her good! I hope this story is an inspiration to you ladies. Blessings to each of you ladies, happy Lord's day, and have a blessed week everyone.










