Life Of King David
Hi ladies it's me again and happy Tuesday! I hope and pray that each of you ladies and your families are doing well. The title I have for this blog is called the ''Life Of King David''. You might be wondering. ''How in the world can he teach us something about mental health?'' Well the answer might surprise you so the first time we get introduced to King David long before the incident with Goliath. We meet him as a shepherd tending sheep in 1 Samuel 16 where old prophet Samuel is told by the Lord to go to Jesse's house. Jesse introduced to the prophet Samuel his sons (before David came along) and Samuel thought the Lord would choose one of them! But you ladies know the story and God revealed to Samuel that man looks on the outward appearance but the Lord looks at the heart. Each of Jesse's seven other sons got evaluated by God and the prophet Samuel but God refused each of them. Samuel asked if Jesse had any more kids and he reluctantly mentioned David and David was called into the house. Then the Lord revealed to Samuel that David, though he was a teenager, would be chosen to be the second king of Israel so Samuel anointed him! David resumed being a shepherd because at that time the youngest able bodied male of the family was a shepherd and that was looked at as a ''least esteemed position'' in Israel's time! We know that David was a songwriter and harp player and was sent to play the harp for King Saul to help him deal with tormenting spirits! Then we know that Golaith the giant Philistine began tormenting the Jewish armies and King Saul and eventually David heard about it. He gave his brothers food and got angry at Goliath for disrespecting God and the Jewish army. He told King Saul he'd fight Goliath and King Saul suggested his armor but David refused. David remembered his experience of killing a lion and bear and used his slingshot and five smooth stones to kill Goliath! That incident would cause David to be known throughout Israel and become a warrior in King Saul's army! But despite him killing Goliath, that caused tension and jealousy between David and King Saul. Yet David befriended Jonathan King Saul's son and crown prince of Israel. David also married his first wife Michal King Saul's oldest daughter and older sister of Prince Jonathan. King Saul threatened to kill David with a javelin and David had to escape from King Saul. It got so bad that Michal David's first wife as well as his friend and prince Prince Jonathan warned David multiple times to get away from King Saul because of his threats to kill him. How wicked is that! In fact Michal and Prince Jonathan lied to King Saul about David's escape which made him even more angry and threatened to send an army to destroy David! But Prince Jonathan warned his dad if he killed David that innocent blood would be in his hands because the Jews back then took murder very seriously and knew the consequences of that. David continued to run from King Saul for years and often had to hide in caves and wrote songs to cope with dealing with that. As time progressed, he met a man named Nabal and took care of his flocks and asked to be compensated for it. Nabal was a wicked man who refused to help David and David and his men threatened to kill Nabal! Well Nabal's wife Abigail prepared food and other things and begged David not to kill her husband because her husband is a fool! (The book of Proverbs warns a ton about how God feels and deals with people who are fools. Nabal would not be exempt from that!) Because of Abigail's gentle nudge, David refused to kill Nabal and accepted Abigail's food, kindness, and proper compensation! Days later the Lord enabled Nabal to die and God enabled David to choose Abigail as his second wife! That may not seem significant but you must remember that Abigail was a godly woman who was ''unequally yoked'' to a wicked man Nabal but death was her way out of being married to him! As time progressed David became a mighty warrior and there was a time in Ziklag that he and his men returned only to find their wives (especially Abigail David's second wife) and children were kidnapped by the wicked Amalekites. 1 Samuel 30 addresses this incident how that was emotionally traumatizing for David and his men who grieved over the incident till they had no strength to weep! To make matters worse, they threatened to kill David but David leaned on the Lord despite that. Then the Lord prompted him to overtake the Amalekites and while his enemies were partying, David and his men fought hard and recovered their families by the grace of God! Then not long after that, King Saul, his son Prince Jonathan and the Jews went to the army against the Philistines and lost that battle. Prince Jonathan and countless other men were brutally killed while King Saul got wounded in battle. It got to a point that King Saul committed suicide therefore causing an end to his kingdom on earth and him being severely judged by the Lord during the tiime of his death. David at thirty years old became king of Judah and after several years of other battles with the majority of the house of King Saul that died (with the exception of King Saul's grandson Mephibosheth) while King David's house waxed stronger. When David was 37 years old, he was crowned king over all Israel! King David endured many more battles with the mighty bulls of Bashon but overcame them all. He sadly had an affair with Bathsheba Uriah, his general's wife and got her pregnant without him knowing. Uriah was sent into battle and was killed brutally on the battlefield causing Bathsheba to lose her husband. Bathsheba married King David and bore their first son and God sent Nathan the prophet to confront King David and he thankfully repented. Him and Bathsheba's baby boy died but they later had another son named Solomon who would later become third king of Israel, wrote Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and Song of Solomon. King David lost many more children and endured more trauma in his household such as his son Ammon raping Tamar causing that to anger his other son Absalom. Absalom got so bitter and angry over that incident that he murdered his brother Ammon causing King David to lose another son! Absalom finally had enough with his father and decided to set his army against his father David's army causing there to be a civil war in Israel. Then when Absalom went into battle his hair got caught in a tree and Joab, one of King David's men, used his sword and killed Absalom to stop the civil war in Israel! Whew! King David lost three of his sons which I can only imagine how brutal that must have been for him to bury those children. He endured rejection from his family or origin, rejection from King Saul,done wrong by Nabal, endured the kidnapping of his wives and kids along with his army's loved ones, lost his best friend Prince Jonathan in battle, trauma in his household that he started, and endured many natural and internal battles. I can only imagine how emotionally each of these incidents must have affected King David. But he always turned to the Lord in prayer and wrote many Psalms that we Christians enjoy today. Just to name some Psalms he wrote such as Psalms, 1,2,3,23,34,22,51, and 63 just to name several! Many of those Psalms were Psalms my dad would read to me and my siblings when we were little before bed. King David poured his heart to the Lord in prayer and him writing the Psalm helped him process his deep traumas that he had to endure. King David endured alot but the Lord was with them and I don't know what you ladies are facing right now during ''Mental Health Awareness Month''. I pray that the story of King David is a reminder to you ladies that whether you endured rejection, loss of loved ones, betrayal of loved ones, facing consequences to your sin or others sins, emotional challenges knowing that God is with you and will help you through those things. You can be raw and honest with God about your raw emotions to the Lord and let Him meet you there. I love to mention stories of the Bible, especially people who endured alot to show their humanity and how they can relate to us! That's what I wanted to share with you ladies. Blessings to each of you ladies, happy Tuesday and have a blessed week everyone.










