David And Jonathan's Friendship

Hi ladies it's me again and happy Tuesday! I hope and pray that each of you ladies and your families are doing well. I'm happy to present another blog called "David And Jonathan's Friendship". For those of you who have been with me during my virtual Bible study, especially this month on July Sunday nights, I've been talking about friendship. The first Sunday I talked about Paul and Silas from Acts 16, the third Sunday we talked about Amnon King David's mentioned in 2 Samuel 13 son having a bad friend with his cousin Jonadab that led him to sadly rape his "lover/half sister Tamar!" How wicked is that? That also shows that the wrong friends can influence one to do some very evil stuff which is why it's so important to choose your friends wisely! (I'm sure many of us have heard the old saying. ''Show me your friends and show me your future'' and ''You are who you run with.'') This past Sunday we talked about Jesus hanging out with His friends in John 11 (I wrote a blog about it too) Mary and Martha of Bethany and how He comforted them in the midst of their pain and how He comforts us in our pain. But on the second Sunday of August, we talked about this very subject. David and Jonathan's friendship is mentioned in 1 Samuel chapters 18-20. This took place after David killed Goliath mentioned in 1 Samuel 17 a story most Christians know about. But we don't talk about what happened afterwards. David used the sword to cut off Goliath's the Philistines head! Jonathan was King Saul's oldest son who was Israel's crown prince. He was interested in David and loved him dearly in a "nonsexual way". He even gave him one of his swords and one of his royal robes! Isn't that sweet? That shows how truly unselfish Jonathan was and that stresses how important it is to have friends that are unselfish. Prince Jonathan did that because he knew that his friend had a calling on his life and encouraged him in that. Ladies, how many friends are like that in your life? Either your friends are leading you to Christ or away and either they're trying to push you to go to your destiny or distract you from it! Only you can make that decision! Prince Jonathan could have been jealous of David like his dad was and even could have sided with his dad against David! He had the right to do so not only because of him being a son but also being a prince. Did you ladies not know that not only was David attacked by King Saul and had to flee, did y'all not know that Prince Jonathan had ''to lie'' to his dad just for David to get away? Not only that, did y'all not know that David married Michal King Saul's oldest daughter (It's likely that her and her brother Prince Jonathan were probably close in age) who also lied to King Saul but that was the intention to protect David from being killed? I'm not saying that Prince Jonathan and Princess Michal lying was right but they did it to protect from being killed by King Saul! Isn't that sad that King Saul's oldest adult children lie just to protect someone they cared about from being killed by him? That brings me to another point, a true friend is loyal, a true friend defends, and protects their friends from harmful situations. The Bible even mentions that when Prince Jonathan defended David against King Saul, King Saul got angry with him and dared to curse the day he was born! How wicked is that? But Prince Jonathan didn't care. He did not want David to be harmed no matter what and was determined to be his friend despite King Saul hating him! How many of you ladies have friends like that? How many of you ladies have friends that are willing to stand up for you when someone is slandering your name, gossiping about you, or folks accusing you? How many of y'all would risk making your parents angry or your boss for wrongly accusing your friends? I'm sure if most of us are honest not many people would do that. Listen ladies, the right friend will not only encourage you to live godly but also will encourage you in your destiny, defend you, and love you unconditionally. The Bible says in the book of Proverbs 17;17 says ''A friend loves at all times and a brother is born for adversity''. Ladies I'm sure y'all have heard the old saying. ''You'll know your real friends when hell breaks loose'' is a very true saying. Anybody can be your friend on a good day but who knows how to be a friend when things go wrong? Who will be your friend when you get sick, go through marriage issues, face divorce, your kids acting funny, you lose a job, go through legal issues just to name some challenges? Y'all know that all of us will face storms at some point but who in your corner is strong enough to go through those things with you? Prince Jonathan is such a beautiful example of that and I pray that we have friends like that! Not only do we need to pray to have friends like that but we need to pray that we'll be friends like that for others too! After all, wasn't God there for us on our best day and worst day? Of course He is! But what really blows me away is how many people in the body of Christ know how to be true friends? May God help us in that area! That's the reason why I wrote this blog. We need kingdom minded friends, folks full of the Holy Ghost, loyal friends, and friends who are ''spiritual warriors''. That's what I wanted to share with you ladies. Blessings to each of you ladies, happy Tuesday, and pray that we friends like Prince Jonathan and be a better friend to the Lord too.








